...when life feels overwhelming (community crisis, work stress, relationship conflicts, or just the general weight of being responsible for everyone's emotions), your people-pleasing patterns can actually work against you. Because when your nervous system is dysregulated, you can't access your prefrontal cortex. That's the part of your brain behind your forehead that helps you think clearly, make good decisions, and act according to your values.

Here’s the truth: confidence and self-doubt can exist at the same time. You can be skilled, competent, and qualified—and still feel unsure. Imposter syndrome doesn’t erase your abilities; it just clouds your perception of them.