The problem comes when constant comparison turns into self-judgment. Instead of learning or connecting, you start ranking yourself: She’s more successful than me. He’s in better shape. Their family seems happier. Before long, every glance at social media or every interaction with friends becomes another way to measure yourself and come up short.

Here’s the truth: confidence and self-doubt can exist at the same time. You can be skilled, competent, and qualified—and still feel unsure. Imposter syndrome doesn’t erase your abilities; it just clouds your perception of them.