You can feel lonely in a crowded room. Being physically present doesn’t always equal emotional connection. Sometimes you might feel unseen, misunderstood, or disconnected from the people around you. This kind of loneliness often comes from being disconnected internally: from your feelings, your needs, or your sense of belonging.

While there’s nothing wrong with massages or candles, those things alone don’t create the kind of restoration that prevents burnout or emotional exhaustion. Real self-care is about tending to your relationship with yourself, not just taking a break from stress.