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Is setting boundaries selfish?
If you grew up in a family where saying No wasn’t allowed or where your worth was tied to pleasing others, boundaries might feel like rejection or selfishness. In reality, boundaries are about honesty and respect. They let people know what you can give and what you can’t. Without them, you risk resentment, burnout, and inauthentic connection.

Sherri M. Herman
2 days ago4 min read


How do I heal from past trauma when I can’t change what happened?
Healing doesn’t mean forgetting, pretending it didn’t matter, or erasing your history. Healing means learning how to live in today without the past running every decision, reaction, or relationship. Past pain leaves marks on your nervous system, your self-worth, and your sense of safety. Healing is about tending to those marks with compassion and giving yourself now what you didn’t get back then.

Sherri M. Herman
7 days ago4 min read


Why do I feel empty inside even when life looks okay?
Feeling empty doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful or failing at life. It means there’s a hollow place within—like a room that’s been shut for too long, untouched and unlit. You go through the motions, but it all feels flat, disconnected, or strangely absent.

Sherri M. Herman
Sep 302 min read


Why Self-Care isn't Selfish
Trying to live a selfless life is a fast track to physical and emotional illness — and often to strained or broken relationships. Living a selfless life leads to emotional isolation and loneliness, the kind research equates to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. That level of loneliness breaks people down.

Sherri M. Herman
Sep 24 min read


How to Find Your Voice When You Feel Like It Doesn’t Matter
Struggling to speak up or feel like your voice doesn't matter? Discover why your voice is essential and how to reclaim it, even amidst self-doubt.

Sherri M. Herman
Jun 174 min read


How Spiritual Practice Helps Ease Loneliness, Anxiety, and the Ache for Deeper Connection
Discover how spiritual practice can ease loneliness and help you feel more grounded, connected, and supported.

Sherri M. Herman
Jun 23 min read


The Four Words That Helped Me Stop People-Pleasing (and Start Living)
Saying “I’m not willing to” is an act of inner-connection. You are listening to your own feelings. You are identifying your boundary.

Sherri M. Herman
Apr 34 min read


Break the Cycle: How Fasting and Digital Detox Can Help You Gain Insight and Reset
Fasting isn’t just about giving something up—it’s about creating space to notice what’s been there all along...

Sherri M. Herman
Mar 44 min read


Breaking Free from the Patterns That Hold You Back
Lent isn’t just about giving something up—it’s about connecting with what matters most. It’s about getting closer to your Higher Guidance an

Sherri M. Herman
Mar 43 min read


If Success Doesn’t Bring Happiness, What Does?
Reaching big goals won’t make you lastingly happy—science proves it. True fulfillment comes from the journey and living your values.

Sherri M. Herman
Feb 184 min read


Why Self-Love is the Ultimate Love Story
If you’re dreading Valentine’s Day because it feels like a spotlight on what’s missing in your life, you’re not alone.

Sherri M. Herman
Feb 45 min read


Why You Apologize Too Much—And How to Stop Without Feeling Like a Jerk
Ever have one of those parenting (or relationship) moments you wish you could erase and start over? I had one recently. My child, on the...

Sherri M. Herman
Jan 134 min read
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