When you grew up in an environment where connection meant danger, your nervous system learned to associate other people with threat. Maybe reaching out for comfort got you dismissed. Or criticized. Or hurt. Maybe the adults in your life were unpredictable, so you learned it was safer to handle things alone.

When people say they have a lack of trust in people, it usually isn’t about being suspicious of everyone. It’s more subtle. You might share surface-level parts of yourself but hold back the real stuff. You might wait for the other shoe to drop, even with someone who seems kind. Or you might second-guess every promise, apology, or commitment.

Here’s the truth: confidence and self-doubt can exist at the same time. You can be skilled, competent, and qualified—and still feel unsure. Imposter syndrome doesn’t erase your abilities; it just clouds your perception of them.

Yes. Intuition doesn’t always point to the easy path. Sometimes it directs you to set a boundary, leave a relationship, or take a leap you don’t feel ready for. That can feel scary. But notice the difference: intuition will say, “This matters for your well-being.” Fear will say, “If you don’t do this perfectly, everything will fall apart.”

Relationship self-sabotage happens when you unconsciously create distance or conflict, even when you want closeness. This can look like picking fights, shutting down emotionally, overanalyzing every text, or convincing yourself the other person doesn’t really care. Chronic anxiety often grows out of two things: past experiences that left your system on high alert, and current stressors that keep pushing your limits. The result is a body that never fully relaxes.

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