When your mind is flooded with stress, loss, or disappointment, it’s normal to draw a blank. Gratitude requires presence, and presence is hard when you’re exhausted or overwhelmed. Start small. You don’t have to feel grateful for your whole life, just for a single moment.

While there’s nothing wrong with massages or candles, those things alone don’t create the kind of restoration that prevents burnout or emotional exhaustion. Real self-care is about tending to your relationship with yourself, not just taking a break from stress.

Being grounded means you’re connected to the present moment instead of being swept away by fear or “what if” thinking produced by your anxious mind. It’s the ability to stay centered in your values and calm enough to make decisions—even when the world around you feels unstable.

Anxiety doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. It’s your nervous system doing its job—trying to keep you safe. But sometimes that alarm stays on, even when there’s no fire. Chronic anxiety often grows out of two things: past experiences that left your system on high alert, and current stressors that keep pushing your limits. The result is a body that never fully relaxes.

Ellen Langer is a Harvard psychologist who has been studying mindfulness for 50 years and I have been loving her latest book, The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health. Yes, you can be more mindful without a formal practice of meditation or yoga. It simply takes the intention to do so.

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Fasting isn’t just about giving something up—it’s about creating space to notice what’s been there all along...

Lent isn’t just about giving something up—it’s about connecting with what matters most. It’s about getting closer to your Higher Guidance an

You don’t have to overhaul your life to feel fulfilled. You just have to start making small decisions that reflect what you value. Maybe that’s reaching out to a friend instead of scrolling, or taking a walk instead of pushing through one more task. Fulfillment grows from moments of alignment, not from achievement.

Your emotional well-being affects everything—your sleep, eating habits, exercise habits, self-perception, spending habits, goal pursuits...

You know that feeling of being unsettled or ill at ease without knowing exactly why? It’s like an internal itch you can't quite reach.