You can feel lonely in a crowded room. Being physically present doesn’t always equal emotional connection. Sometimes you might feel unseen, misunderstood, or disconnected from the people around you. This kind of loneliness often comes from being disconnected internally: from your feelings, your needs, or your sense of belonging.

When people say they have a lack of trust in people, it usually isn’t about being suspicious of everyone. It’s more subtle. You might share surface-level parts of yourself but hold back the real stuff. You might wait for the other shoe to drop, even with someone who seems kind. Or you might second-guess every promise, apology, or commitment.

If you grew up in a family where saying No wasn’t allowed or where your worth was tied to pleasing others, boundaries might feel like rejection or selfishness. In reality, boundaries are about honesty and respect. They let people know what you can give and what you can’t. Without them, you risk resentment, burnout, and inauthentic connection.

The benefits of journaling are expansive, beginning with its ability to alleviate stress.

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