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Why Do I Want to Isolate When I'm Stressed: Connection Struggles for Adult Children and Perfectionists
When you grew up in an environment where connection meant danger, your nervous system learned to associate other people with threat. Maybe reaching out for comfort got you dismissed. Or criticized. Or hurt. Maybe the adults in your life were unpredictable, so you learned it was safer to handle things alone.

Sherri M. Herman
Jan 205 min read


Why Self-Care isn't Selfish
Trying to live a selfless life is a fast track to physical and emotional illness — and often to strained or broken relationships. Living a selfless life leads to emotional isolation and loneliness, the kind research equates to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. That level of loneliness breaks people down.

Sherri M. Herman
Sep 2, 20254 min read


How to Find Your Voice When You Feel Like It Doesn’t Matter
Struggling to speak up or feel like your voice doesn't matter? Discover why your voice is essential and how to reclaim it, even amidst self-doubt.

Sherri M. Herman
Jun 17, 20254 min read


Break the Cycle: How Fasting and Digital Detox Can Help You Gain Insight and Reset
Fasting isn’t just about giving something up—it’s about creating space to notice what’s been there all along...

Sherri M. Herman
Mar 4, 20254 min read


Why You Apologize Too Much—And How to Stop Without Feeling Like a Jerk
Ever have one of those parenting (or relationship) moments you wish you could erase and start over? I had one recently. My child, on the...

Sherri M. Herman
Jan 13, 20254 min read
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